I have worked with some phenomenal attorneys during my career, both in the same office and on opposite sides of a case. One of my first mentors told me that you only have one opportunity with your honor and your name. He's right. I've tried throughout my career to practice law with integrity, and to require the same from my clients.
Divorce can be a horrible shock to people. Crushed, angry, overwhelmed, or frightened, clients can act in ways which would horribly embarrass them were their actions brought out in the light of day. I work with my clients to shape their futures into something they are excited and proud to work toward.
It doesn't mean my clients are perfect. It means that they will be advised to act in a way which will put them in a positive posture during litigation.
Meeting bad behavior by opposing counsel with like behavior does not bring honor to the profession. Meeting dishonest behavior of your spouse by hiding assets or being dishonest in the process does not end in positive results. Prove the lies in court, and your spouse could be sunk in that hearing and possibly in future hearings. The judge will already have your spouse's number. You do NOT want to be in front of a judge who does not take you at your word!
A bully will act like a bully in the dark. In the light of day, the bluster fades. Act with honor. Expect the integrity of others, and help them work toward acting with integrity.
Thursday, March 17, 2011
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